When it comes to your true friends,

you can do one of two things wholeheartedly at a time:

support*

or

criticize.**

Choose one.

*Support- having one’s back regardless of flaws, decisions, life changes or time spent together.
**Criticize- “talk about”, vent to others about, or claim to completely support and love them 100% while disagreeing and disapproving of who they are or come to be, on their own, with or without you.